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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: im married. thankfully husband is willing to take me back
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« on: November 03, 2015, 06:53:45 AM »
Dear BPD family

At last. People that get it. Please help me... .I reconnected with an ex boyfriend on Facebook a couple of years ago.      I was happily married, owned a home, and had a good job. The ex boyfriend 20 years ago seemed unstable and that's why we had broken up. He never married and lived an isolated life 1000 miles from me. After contact things progressed quickly with fantasies of a better life. He convinced me we were meant to be and moved 1 mile from my home. Hubby New everything. Friends and family watched me be sucked away. I lost it all. House... .unable to focus... .job, and I filed for divorce. The guy moved back to where he came from and broke up and got back with me countless times. Extrely abusive, dangerous, insane... .didn't work and spent like mad, odd childlike behavior, I could go on. I travelled to see him many times and was sick over this . it made no sense to anyone. I am reconciling with my husband now and the ex BPD will not leave me alone. Help. I'm scared.
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« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2015, 11:57:28 AM »
hi bradycat 1971 and Welcome

im glad you found us. i do think youll find many here who can relate to your story, and can help you on your journey.

can you tell us a bit more about your story? what led to the split with your BPDex? what is going on now that is causing you to feel scared?
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