Stuck in limbo...

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

i just wanted to throw in some agreement with JQ: what i say about the alpha male stuff is my opinion and only my opinion. what i do if a person expects me to be a shoulder to cry on is what i do. there is nothing, i repeat nothing, inherently wrong with a woman confiding in you and i dont want to give the impression that i think otherwise. what matters is how you engage.

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i just wanted to throw in some agreement with JQ: what i say about the alpha male stuff is my opinion and only my opinion. what i do if a person expects me to be a shoulder to cry on is what i do. there is nothing, i repeat nothing, inherently wrong with a woman confiding in you and i dont want to give the impression that i think otherwise. what matters is how you engage.

[C.Stein]

there is nothing, i repeat nothing, inherently wrong with a woman confiding in

Unless they are doing with you instead of their SO. 

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there is nothing, i repeat nothing, inherently wrong with a woman confiding in

Unless they are doing with you instead of their SO. 

certainly. you dont want to be involved in that. its "bad" triangulation.