Why say one of hint and do another?

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I heard that my uBPDbf of 5 years  as seeing someone on th side. Confronted him about it Monday nights gut he claimed it was all lies etc. Tuesday morning as leaving for work he said he was going to an attorney, to start the process to separate our assets. I heard from his kids S17 & D23 that h called me hem and said we are done. Then he t low me Tuesday night how he still wants to be together and he'll take a polygraph. I just said I need space no.

Next morning comes home brings breakfast, then at lunchtime I find out he had invited a bunch of friends to our house that night 4 days before without ever saying a word to me. Again says how he wants to stay together again I say I need space. He goes out with his friends and I heir wives that night and tells them we are breaking up. Then yesterday morning wants to be close and have sex... .

What is the hell?  I'd bet money he's texting multiple women how lonely & sad he is.  (Which he tried to compare his texting woman to me having lunch with a group of co-workers (some men))

I don't know what is worse the cheating or mind games... .