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After all he's done he cancelled my gym membership
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I felt good today. I was positive and in good space, after a few bad days. But tonight I got an email saying that he cancelled the gym membership we got together in July. I did actually get him taken off the membership . But that was in August. And he lost his membership . It wasn't my fault the gym told me and him that his membership was ok. But then it got cancelled by corporate . Not of my doing! I swear . We were under his name. They then put it in my name and now in my credit card but left him as the account holder. So he called and canceled it today . Basically almost a month of NC! Why now? He cheated on my the whole relationship! He had a second girlfriend this whole summer! He called me cruel names and actually spit in my face when we broke up! Hasn't he done even damage to me! Oh and yes he was a Catholic priest 4 years! He's a hypocrite! Not worthy to have ever been a priest! Why would he need to do yet another horrible abd spiteful thing! I loved him so much and this is how he treats me! I gave him great gifts, paid for vacations , dinners, got him two jobs and forgave a $1500 loan. Took off work for five vacations and I work for myself so I lose money when I take off. I just can't believe he could leave me with at least that gym membership . It just shows me how little I meant to him. I'm going to fight it tomorrow. I think I have a strong case. I have it documented in their computer that he spit in my face and they handle it, it was also now under my credit card number not his . He had no right to cancel . I hope!
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hey itstopsnow
did you get the problems with the membership sorted out? how are you feeling today?
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No things got worse . His mother called me and is trying to threaten me to sue me. I'm going to write a new topic about it on here. It's crazy and I had to put her in her place. If she tries to sue me, it would be a huge mistake on her part
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