three times recycled now how to splitt up the furniture

[Depression = 72% of members]

I know why I have recycled three times now. I also know why we have broken up three times now. this last time was the last for me ,I have realized that nothing is ever going to change until I change them . this time she left most of her stuff. I have bagged most of them up, but knowing from past brake ups . I know she will feel that she entitled to everything . I am not going to allow it  this time. in the past I have allowed her to take it all .( one time she left me a spoon) she even clean out the food, and left me with nothing . she never pays for anything and if she does she wants it back . what is it about these kind of people that make them feel it okay to clean u out . but she left her dog last time and this time she left her cat. I have not heard from her but once to tell me she needed lotion . and being me I was going to take her lotion . that is the night I realized . this has never been a relationship it has been about her needs and me being punished.

  do they feel love at all?

do they care what they have did to you? 

do they really feel u should pay for everything

why do they punish u like a child .

I swear sometimes they turn into psychopath's when they turn u black.

now she is back with her ex again . god I really feel sorry for this girl .

my ex is a waif until u are black then she is npd all the way.

[ajr5679]

I know why I have recycled three times now. I also know why we have broken up three times now. this last time was the last for me ,I have realized that nothing is ever going to change until I change them . this time she left most of her stuff. I have bagged most of them up, but knowing from past brake ups . I know she will feel that she entitled to everything . I am not going to allow it  this time. in the past I have allowed her to take it all .( one time she left me a spoon) she even clean out the food, and left me with nothing . she never pays for anything and if she does she wants it back . what is it about these kind of people that make them feel it okay to clean u out . but she left her dog last time and this time she left her cat. I have not heard from her but once to tell me she needed lotion . and being me I was going to take her lotion . that is the night I realized . this has never been a relationship it has been about her needs and me being punished.

  do they feel love at all?

do they care what they have did to you? 

do they really feel u should pay for everything

why do they punish u like a child .

I swear sometimes they turn into psychopath's when they turn u black.

now she is back with her ex again . god I really feel sorry for this girl .

my ex is a waif until u are black then she is npd all the way.