Does anyone know ?

[Cazz787]

Does anybody know what happens if your ex pwbp works hard to recycle you, but once denied, then blocked what takes place? I know they're all different of course. But I can't help but wonder what sort of battle I am about to face.

In my long lived experience when I am kind, she's cruel, paints me black, tells lies.

When I am strong, take the parental in charge stance she then is scared to death of me.

While being abusive, she never went too far because she knew she could lose me for good.

On our last interaction I was firm, but light on our last call. While explaining to her why I react to her abuse. (not in those words... )

She still tried. I have to walk away before she kills me.

As all BP's are though, she is HIGHLY REVENGEFUL so I can't help but wonder what it's store for me... .

[Sunfl0wer]

Hi Cazz787,

As all BP's are though, she is HIGHLY REVENGEFUL so I can't help but wonder what it's store for me... .

It is anybody's guess.  You know her better.  Many here have had false accusations and even jail time.

What is the reason you are maintaining contact? 

Do you feel she has the potential to cause you harm?

[Cazz787]

I went no contact. Promptly, after the last phone call that was literally a roller coaster ride from the usual torture.

Good point though. I know her best.

I was only curious because I was always codependent with her. I imagine my ignoring her pleas and being so serious to block her every where will stir up some issues.

[Herodias]

They find a new toy to play with... .Sorry to say. You are better off. It doesn't feel that way, but it's true. Find something else to think about- it's really really hard! You have to do it. Be good to you!