I started a strict "no contact" policy about a week ago, blocking my exBPDgf from contacting me via phone or e-mail. I don't have a social networking page, so that isn't a problem either.
Lots of us here kick ourselves for this, but there does seem to be a lingering feeling of curiosity about how things are turning out. After being engaged to her and living together for almost three years, I am having trouble instantly separating and moving on.
:)ecided to check her Instagram page today, and she had just posted an old photo of us from sometime during the "honeymoon" phase. There was a long caption stating that she will always love me, misses me terribly, that I was the only one who ever understood her, that her heart is bleeding for me etc.
Many comments from friends and family trying to comfort her.
It was very painful to see and read, but I don't want to be drawn back into the web. Based on your own experiences, do you think she counted on me visiting that page, and made the post with the hope that I would once again initiate contact?
There has been no mention of someone new, as often seems to be the case.
As always, very confusing.
I believe the answer is yes.
My exGF also published something on her FB account that strongly suggests that she would like to be with me. This happened several months after I left and initiated NC. So, expect more of this type of actions.
