What goes on behind closed doors...

[VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?"]

I just got done reading and re-reading all of our text messages over the past year and a half. I am exhausted. I don't really know how I lived with that for so long... .I needed to send them to my lawyer. He is making a big stink over how he said things went down and he is lying of course. The text messages make me look like a fool as well... .it's hard to have someone else read them, but I need to show I am telling the truth. The problem with text messages is that there are e-mails and phone calls in-between. Some of it is confusing because you don't see that part.  I keep thinking about Johnny Depp's situation... .I always liked him and saw him as someone who picked messed up women. I am trying to be open minded, but I think he chose a crazy one here. It has come out that she had been accused of domestic violence in the past. I am telling you- this could be a case just like we have been through. We all know what goes down in these type of relationships... .regardless of what Facebook says    I read peoples stories here and find it amazing that all this goes on and people just try and behave "normal" outside their homes. Incredible isn't it?  Our experiences really show you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors... .

[Herodias]

I just got done reading and re-reading all of our text messages over the past year and a half. I am exhausted. I don't really know how I lived with that for so long... .I needed to send them to my lawyer. He is making a big stink over how he said things went down and he is lying of course. The text messages make me look like a fool as well... .it's hard to have someone else read them, but I need to show I am telling the truth. The problem with text messages is that there are e-mails and phone calls in-between. Some of it is confusing because you don't see that part.  I keep thinking about Johnny Depp's situation... .I always liked him and saw him as someone who picked messed up women. I am trying to be open minded, but I think he chose a crazy one here. It has come out that she had been accused of domestic violence in the past. I am telling you- this could be a case just like we have been through. We all know what goes down in these type of relationships... .regardless of what Facebook says    I read peoples stories here and find it amazing that all this goes on and people just try and behave "normal" outside their homes. Incredible isn't it?  Our experiences really show you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors... .

[Confused108]

I just got done reading and re-reading all of our text messages over the past year and a half. I am exhausted. I don't really know how I lived with that for so long... .I needed to send them to my lawyer. He is making a big stink over how he said things went down and he is lying of course. The text messages make me look like a fool as well... .it's hard to have someone else read them, but I need to show I am telling the truth. The problem with text messages is that there are e-mails and phone calls in-between. Some of it is confusing because you don't see that part.  I keep thinking about Johnny Depp's situation... .I always liked him and saw him as someone who picked messed up women. I am trying to be open minded, but I think he chose a crazy one here. It has come out that she had been accused of domestic violence in the past. I am telling you- this could be a case just like we have been through. We all know what goes down in these type of relationships... .regardless of what Facebook says    I read peoples stories here and find it amazing that all this goes on and people just try and behave "normal" outside their homes. Incredible isn't it?  Our experiences really show you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors... .

yes Blue so very true what you have said. Normal people like their friends or family really don't know what's going on with the BPDs behind closed door. For example when my ex sent me a friends request on FB Feb 2013 I thought she was so happy! Had a good job was going to start her own buisness was married but separated . Said her hubby cheated on her was hooked on porn etc. . And I believed every word of it hook, line, and sinker! I mean why wouldn't I? We were childhood friends that became more . But behind all that Facade of FAcebook that I now call FakeBook she was a total mess. Paranoid , afraid , crying sometimes half the night in her bathtub (so her neighbors can't hear her) that's what she told me. So yes you are correct we don't know what going on behind closed doors!  I wish you luck with your ex!