Help with moving on.

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I just realized my ex has BPD a few weeks ago and this is how I figured out the process of the break up. I originally felt that there should be something that I should do in order to reconcile the relationship slowly and the result was her either not answering my phone calls and even pretending as if she did not know who I was. In the beginning our relationship was really golden we spoke of creative ideas and even had a strong view of spirituality and self growth this caused me to feel as if  it was a relationship like no other but once the actual nature of the relationship was revealed to me the distance started the devaluation was there and also flat out disrespect from her end. I am not sure why I feel this way but I mentioned in a previous post apart wants to get back with her in order to reconcile but now a huger part of me wants to push this feeking away from me for the simple fact that it is not being reciprocated what should I do?

[jmorris2076]

I just realized my ex has BPD a few weeks ago and this is how I figured out the process of the break up. I originally felt that there should be something that I should do in order to reconcile the relationship slowly and the result was her either not answering my phone calls and even pretending as if she did not know who I was. In the beginning our relationship was really golden we spoke of creative ideas and even had a strong view of spirituality and self growth this caused me to feel as if  it was a relationship like no other but once the actual nature of the relationship was revealed to me the distance started the devaluation was there and also flat out disrespect from her end. I am not sure why I feel this way but I mentioned in a previous post apart wants to get back with her in order to reconcile but now a huger part of me wants to push this feeking away from me for the simple fact that it is not being reciprocated what should I do?

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[Lucky Jim]

Hey jmorris, Presumably you are on this board because you are interested in saving your r/s, right?  What makes you think your Ex has BPD?  Are you hoping to get back together?  Fill us in, when you can.

LuckyJim