Its amazing what kinds of things my girlfriend can say I am wrong for. I mean it never ends.
The other night we were running through a local neighborhood with a little bar area. We stopped because she has been playing that pokemon game. Some random guy came up and was talking to us about the game. No big deal. We went on a little down the street and some girl asked us about the game too. I immediately knew this would be bad. My GF is abnormally jealous. So... .I kept my head down at my phone, didn't say anything to the girl and faced my GF the whole time. My GF answered the questions and the girl walked away. As she walked away I turned so my back was to that other girl and faced my GF. I wanted to make sure there was NO WAY she could accuse me of looking or anything. I was very aware and know for sure I had my eyes on my GF the whole time. I put my phone away in my pocket.
Of course that didn't help. Her reality isn't reality. She looked at me and said... .You didn't have to look at that girl, it was rude. I couldn't help it but I started laughing. I told her how I knew exactly what was going on and I purposely faced her and looked at her the whole time so there was no way she could think I was looking at that girl. She said she saw me stare at her as she walked away. This isn't the first time she has accused me of something like this.
We argued back and forth a while and of course it got nowhere because she can never be wrong. I just told her I was done talking about that. Then she said I put my phone away. If I wasn't looking at her then why did I put my phone away. She said that proved it
. Its all just so crazy.
At that point no matter what I said she just kept saying over and over again... .you put your phone away, you put your phone away.
I told her... .Ok you win. Thanks for ruining this nice night for me. She said... .Ha! You ruined the night. You put your phone away. You looked at that girl.
We walked back separately which sucked because it was night and not the best neighborhood. After getting back to the house I worked a little bit on the computer and she came in, put her arms around me and said... .Babe Im sorry about tonight. I shouldn't have gotten upset. Its natural to look at girls and Im not mad. There are guys I will find attractive and girls that you find attractive and its ok. Im not mad about that and I wont be jealous anymore. This was all kinds of confusing and Im just thinking WTH! I got up and looked at her. I said... .This is not about you being mad about me looking. You are still saying that I looked at this girl because I thought she was attractive and your trying to tell me what I was thinking and doing when I know its not true. Im sorry but Im not happy with you putting that label on me and I don't have to accept it and be ok with it.
She kept saying she wasn't mad and she wasn't upset at all. She kept saying it was ok that I looked and the whole time Im shaking my head thinking... .what is wrong with this girl. What is wrong with me and why do I deal with this.
Eventually I hit the point where I just didn't want to argue. She wasn't being abusive and she really was trying to make things better and her thoughts and feelings were a bit twisted but they were not affecting me. She was being pretty loving at that point. I just let it go and we slept together.
