Sounds like he has the perfect excuse, he can leave because he's sick, you are a bad person because he is sick, the world owes him a favour because he is sick.
My exgf does this too, always sick so no one can expect her to behave like an adult. She expects the pirks of adult pleasure without any responsibility for her choices/actions.
How can anyone help someone with so many loopholes for life. I heard a doctor describe pwBPD as having personality like jello, just can't grasp it or do anything with it. Just slips right out of your hands.
Love that quote, made me
Thanks Jerry, its also what I thought. He blames everything on his illness and takes no responsibility. What annoyed me was saying he was disappointed in me for having no compassion. How dare he; I tried for 12 months to be a compassionate friend, without success. I now have no compassion towards him whosoever or any patience for his victim mentality; I've woken up and see him for what he is. I'm sorry he has a mental illness and his life must be hell because of it, but to be fair, its not my problem. I tried to be his friend, his confidante who he could turn to if he ever needed one but he chose to crap all over me instead and rage at me that he doesn't want me or need my help. His loss.
