I did not expect this

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

I went back to family court expecting favourable response, did not happen. Xw lied so much. Her lies had more impact on the judge than my honesty. Not only did I open up old wounds, a whole bunch of new ones are opened. I am in a lot of pain. I feel funny, like I'm in a different place, in a haze, like I'm not in my body. I have no energy, I'm hardly eating, I just want to sleep. I have no emotion or distorted ones, very high very low. The impact of all of this is turning out to be to much. On top of all of this I've had to deal with the news my brain tumour is back. So strange, I push myself to over come my trauma, a good father, was a good husband. Xw has been vicious and she had our son, great job, BF, her life is like she wrote it for herself. It's very discouraging to see her life blossom after all her underhanded treachery.

[bus boy]

I went back to family court expecting favourable response, did not happen. Xw lied so much. Her lies had more impact on the judge than my honesty. Not only did I open up old wounds, a whole bunch of new ones are opened. I am in a lot of pain. I feel funny, like I'm in a different place, in a haze, like I'm not in my body. I have no energy, I'm hardly eating, I just want to sleep. I have no emotion or distorted ones, very high very low. The impact of all of this is turning out to be to much. On top of all of this I've had to deal with the news my brain tumour is back. So strange, I push myself to over come my trauma, a good father, was a good husband. Xw has been vicious and she had our son, great job, BF, her life is like she wrote it for herself. It's very discouraging to see her life blossom after all her underhanded treachery.

[JerryRG]

Don't fall into the trap of believing your ex is getting by with anything, her day is coming, it's just a matter of time.

Good always wins over evil in the end, lies are exposed, the truth prevails.

Don't allow her to destroy you, if you don't get well you won't be able to care for your son when your ex loses him and everything else.

She cannot win against truth, your son will figure this out soon enough and see who the healthy sane parent truly is. Be there for him when he does, ok?

Take this time and build your life into something you and your son will enjoy years into the future.