BPD GF Became my mom's best buddy

[alc]

Three weeks into about our 30th breakup, while I was in NC, my girlfriend suddenly became great friends with my mom.  Texting, talking daily, going shopping, having my mom babysit for her (first time). Shes been telling my mom little things that she is doing.  Not sure what her angle is? Anyone else ever have this happen to them?

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[C.Stein]

This didn't happen to me.  I'm not sure if speculation on this is going to give you any real answers.  Her reason for doing this could be just about anything.  It could be she wants to keep tabs on you given the NC ... .or 100 other possibilities. 

I am curious, why do you think she is doing this now?  What is different about this breakup?  Are you together again?  What are the reasons for all the breakups?

[alc]

We are not together. Its been two months. This breakup was due to her belief that I was peeping in my tenants windows in a rental property i own. Ran into her and another guy having a family day little hike and the next day she was texting telling me she still cared and she hurt deep down seeing me hurt that day. When i told her she has done nothing to show me she cares, no response until 5 a.m. the next day and she says good morning, listen, i wasnt texting to talk things out, ive moved on, im quite happy. Just wanted you to know how i felt that day.