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« on: April 19, 2017, 07:53:25 PM »

An answered text.
A request for information (something non monetary )
Not yelled at.


Small victories.
If it were so pathetic that these small crumbs of civility fill me with hope it would be, well, tragic.
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
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« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2017, 09:00:49 PM »

Hi SurivorMom,

It sounds like she's at baseline, I understand emotionally exausting a pwBPD can be when they're emotionally dysregulated. It's not easy and it has to be really hard when it's your child. I recall being surprised with these moments where I was split white, I didn't know what triggered it, I was always expecting to other shoe to drop because I was so used to the emotional dysregulations and being split black, you could call it walking on eggshells.
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« Reply #2 on: April 20, 2017, 01:37:43 AM »

Hi survivormom

It's happened once, it can happen again!

It's baby steps all the way but joined together these small changes make huge shifts. I've seen it so I know it to be true.

Enjoy the moment, like putting on new warm socks!

Hugs to you

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