Finally Feel Vindicated

[Depression = 72% of members]

I haven't been on here for a while as I was getting better though still hadn't detached myself.

At a works night out yesterday I was told my a mutual friend that the guy my ex dated after me, the one where I kept thinking "how are they still together, what's he able to give that I didn't", was actually dumped before Christmas. Four months. Same as me. Same as the previous one. She is now with someone else from work. A FOURTH person in 2 years. She broke up with him too. By all accounts, he is a lovely guy, and apparently was close to tears when he was asked about it. She then tried hitting on somebody at the Christmas night out who wasn't interested in her, saying "I thought you didn't like me."

And I realised finally... .it wasn't me. She is just that manipulative, that desperate for attention and affection, that unable to sustain any kind of relationship. I got some satisfaction in finding out that a few people had changed their opinion on her after she was hitting on the guy at Christmas. People are beginning to realise... .four men from the same workplace in about 20 months. I'm baffled by the complete lack of self-awareness she has to realise how bad it makes her look.

So for others who wonder if they're still with the other person, or if it's going well... .trust me... .they're the same person and doing the same crap to everybody else that they did to you.

[CitizenBell]

I haven't been on here for a while as I was getting better though still hadn't detached myself.

At a works night out yesterday I was told my a mutual friend that the guy my ex dated after me, the one where I kept thinking "how are they still together, what's he able to give that I didn't", was actually dumped before Christmas. Four months. Same as me. Same as the previous one. She is now with someone else from work. A FOURTH person in 2 years. She broke up with him too. By all accounts, he is a lovely guy, and apparently was close to tears when he was asked about it. She then tried hitting on somebody at the Christmas night out who wasn't interested in her, saying "I thought you didn't like me."

And I realised finally... .it wasn't me. She is just that manipulative, that desperate for attention and affection, that unable to sustain any kind of relationship. I got some satisfaction in finding out that a few people had changed their opinion on her after she was hitting on the guy at Christmas. People are beginning to realise... .four men from the same workplace in about 20 months. I'm baffled by the complete lack of self-awareness she has to realise how bad it makes her look.

So for others who wonder if they're still with the other person, or if it's going well... .trust me... .they're the same person and doing the same crap to everybody else that they did to you.