does karma exsist

[statsattack]

With all the bad things my ex did I feel justice will never be served and she will get away with all she has done to me

[Lalathegreat]

I struggle with this feeling as well. There were so many horrible things that happened over the course of our relationship and I feel the scales of justice will likely never be balanced.

However... .I try to remember for myself that my ex was an extremely ill man whose life was chaotic in the best of times and downright hellish in the worst. He suffers daily for his inability to remain emotionally stable.

And that helps a teeny amount when I'm struggling with feeling vengeful.

[statsattack]

My ex is as good of a human as OJ Simpson and I am not exaggerating. I am disgusted she can get away with murder

[jambley]

oh yes, certainly. My undiagnosed ex gf's reputation proceeds her... .i live in a small town and her attitude is very well known. I know her better than she knows herself, even though I never knew the real her... .if that makes sense. A good friend of mine said 'sit back and relax, wait for the kharma', it'll arrive, I've seen it happen before with her. Just wait

[hopealways]

If it makes you feel better then YES karma does exist: a BPD can never have a real mutually harmonious loving relationship unless they get therapy and are serious about getting better but you have better chances flying to the moon on roller skates than that ever happening.

[jambley]

If it makes you feel better then YES karma does exist: a BPD can never have a real mutually harmonious loving relationship unless they get therapy and are serious about getting better but you have better chances flying to the moon on roller skates than that ever happening.

Absolutely. Believe in my kharma. Today I feel grateful because MY home feels like MY home again without abuse... .once upon a time i offered to sell my flat which i own outright and pay off her mortgage. Very glad she effed things up for herself, I would have given her everything I own and more. I think the expression is 'see you next Tuesday.'

[vaztek2003]

Id love to believe as I felt and still kind of feel used for the 4 years we were together. I helped her with school and even took a math course(which she is horrible in) for her online and she breaks up with me a few weeks after she gets accepted into the program of choice. Now I suspect she's enjoying summer with her 42 yr old boss (She's 23) who makes 150k a year as the head Pharmacist, who would once texted her to have sex in the parking lot with him... .no school stress and being with him she has no work stress. So from my perspective things are on the up and up for her. I was always told never to wish bad on others, but she definitely knew what buttons to push in me.

[happendtome]

Sometimes it seems to me that you can get everything if you just ask. That goes to my ex and to my replacement. My ex seems so innocent and sweet that everyones first impression is that she is a victim and life has been harsh to her. And my replacement lies so big that no one doesnt believe that anyone could lie something so big. Dead children and friends, being in coma, psycho ex-s who robbed him and so on and on.

Now, this last year when they have been together. My ex and my replacement has opened a little bit other peoples eyes. My ex has been in serious conflict at least 3 people (i dont include myself as i dont know does she think i have a conflict with her or not) and now i heard theres also the fourth one. So people may start to wonder is she really a victim or is theres something wrong with her. But she is a little bit lucky, because her job includes changing location where she works. And now my replacement is also lucky. New place and you can start all over again.

Hard to say how long they can play this game and can they get away with that.