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Peacelovehealing
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Parent
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« on: July 03, 2017, 09:04:06 PM »

Hi all,

Definitely need support right now. This is my first post. I've been dealing with a mother with BPD. She is incredibly unhappy and constantly swears at me, demeans me, criticizes me, and screams her head off at me despite being in my mid-20s. I've always wanted to pursue a career to help the world and she hates that. I'm currently in the midst of a huge career shift to go from a corporate job to something that will actually help the world and she won't stop screaming at me about it. I know she is fearful about the cost implications -- but instead of being a rational parent she is calling me intense names, screaming at me nonstop, and demeaning me. Any suggestions? Thanks BPD fam!
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Relationship status: "Divorced"/abandoned by SO in Feb 2014; Mother with BPD, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety: RIP in 2021.
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« Reply #1 on: July 04, 2017, 01:46:10 AM »

Do you live together? If so,  I can imagine how much harder boundaries might be to enact.
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« Reply #2 on: July 04, 2017, 07:46:46 PM »

Run like hell ?
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