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[Handy]

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[Meili]

I'm sorry for what brought you here but I'm glad you're with us.  We help and support each other here.

I think a good way to start is to tell us about yourself - whatever you are comfortable telling us - and about the person you are referring to.

Also, if you could tell us what happened recently to bring your here, we will be better able to support you.

There is a lot of information here - articles, workshops, etc. - and we'll help you find what you need.