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[Pleasejuststop]

So i just realized i have BPD and possibly other mental illnesses. Im struggling qith my fiance. I need him to understand me amd me to understand him. Sometimes i feel that it wont ever work but im not willig to give up yet. I want to be happy and make him happy at the same time. Please help

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[Tattered Heart]

Hi PleaseJustStop,

I am very sorry to hear that you and your fiance are struggling right now, but it is great to see you reaching out for help and support - a very brave and scary thing to do!

This site is a support group for those who are or were in a relationship with a person with BPD, so many of the posts can be triggering to a BPD sufferer. There are resources of the type you're seeking. Please check out Resources for BPD Sufferers.

I wish you well on your journey.