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« on: September 14, 2017, 04:17:04 AM »

she text me saying " i miss you so much, i cant believe its been 2 months. Id thought this would stop but i had to tell me just in case. sorry for this."

Ive seen her on tinder and guessing that her latest partner has split from her trying to recycle me.
I was on holiday at the time even though she would have no way of working out i was.
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« Reply #1 on: September 14, 2017, 09:19:32 AM »

How do you feel about this contact, lucky?  Have you responded?
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« Reply #2 on: September 14, 2017, 09:40:10 AM »

Hey lucky013, Are you interested in a recycle?  If so, plenty of us (including me) have done it, only to wind up in the same place but with more pain.  Presumably she is testing the waters to see if you are still on the line, so-to-speak.  Are you?  Have you decided whether to respond?

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« Reply #3 on: September 14, 2017, 10:48:30 AM »

Hey lucky013, Are you interested in a recycle?  If so, plenty of us (including me) have done it, only to wind up in the same place but with more pain.  Presumably she is testing the waters to see if you are still on the line, so-to-speak.  Are you?  Have you decided whether to respond?

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No, i knew this was likely to come my way as this is not my first relationship like this. But only learnt about BPD within the last couple years. Well i blocked her on most things apart from normal text message of which she can only assume i blocked too. I haven't responded. I know that its best not to respond. It did however make me think about her but i just went out and enjoyed my evening Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #4 on: September 14, 2017, 12:11:53 PM »

Sounds like you handled it well, lucky.  LJ
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