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MzLz62!
Thank you for sharing a bit of an introduction of what is going on in your life. Isn't it amazing when you begin to discover that your concerns and thoughts about your M may be more than OCD? I know when I first learned about BPD, I felt like I suddenly found out what it was that my uBPDm had for all those years. When you know things aren't right and stumble upon BPD, and it fits, there can be a sense of relief and shock at the same time. How did you learn about BPD? How do you feel about this discovery?
We have a very large online family, and the members are understanding and helpful. Did you take a look at the list on the right hand side of our board? There are many tips there with a lot of information to help you understand more about BPD. Please also take time to read the posts by other members and jump in with your thoughts. We look forward to hearing more from you.
Here is a link that you may find helpful to you as you try to deal with your uBPDm's behavior:
A 3 Minute Lesson on Ending ConflictIt is never easy to deal with a pwBPD. We all struggle with it. You are not alone.
Wools