It has been on again and off again. I just don't feel that my spouse has my best interests in mind. To be honest my spouse has really not been any more contrite than before and I feel like I am still carrying the weight of "making our marriage healthy" on my shoulders.
Hey michel71, What, if anything, has changed? What makes you think things will go differently this time? From what you are saying, you are still carrying the weight. You're right, she probably doesn't have your best interests in mind, so why are you still playing the game? Presumably something keeps you hangin' on. What is it? I know these are tough questions.
LuckyJim