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Hyacinth Bucket
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« on: March 15, 2018, 09:21:18 PM »

My best friend sent me this, and it's great. I hope you will enjoy this article.

"What if we just decided we're doing a good job?"

https://goo.gl/gXrnmY

"Parenting a child who is in a constant and extreme state of rage or panic or both, despite your best efforts at mollification and a whole lot of counting to three? You’re doing such a good job, my friend."
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« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2018, 09:59:07 AM »

I love this, HB!  Just what I needed this morning... .Thank you! MM 
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« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2018, 11:59:00 AM »

MomMae, yay! I'm so glad you liked it!   
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« Reply #3 on: March 16, 2018, 01:22:56 PM »

I loved this hyacinth bucket!

Sometimes we can be so critical of ourselves, well I know I can, it’s so good to take a step back at times to realise that yes, we ARE doing a good job!

Thank you x
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« Reply #4 on: March 18, 2018, 04:22:31 AM »

Hi hyacinthbucket.

Loved it!

Yep, so hard to be all things to all people... .a great reminder to be kind to ourselves in the process.

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