Hi Heretofindhope

Welcome to bpdfamily, I'm glad you found us and joined, you've come to the right place, can be sure of wonderful support, we are all here together moving forwards, you are not alone in this
You've been living in a really fearful place, we can all relate to how overwhelming dealing with child with BPD. When you have time can you share with us what your dealing with your daughter, so we know how we might support you, get to know you and your situation.
Support groups local to you, have you googled, or perhaps your local medical services, doctor may have information?
Welcome again.
Hope
WDx