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Author Topic: She was the victim, always cheated on and hurt by being abandoned by her Ex's  (Read 560 times)
FireBurnedWild7
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Not together.. she left 4 months ago after devaluing me.
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« on: May 29, 2018, 09:44:03 PM »

Ok... .I don't even think I can type all of this out... I feel like I've written this story already 500 times. So I'll attempt my best. Long story short to recap first: I'm 30 Male, she's 27 female... .You know the sxoop- I'm a genuine nice guy, would give her my world. Fell deeply in love and she mirrored it perfectly beyond any shadow of a doubt... she was the victim, always cheated on and hurt by being abandoned by her Ex's. Well this is what she heard ME say becuz that is actually all true for me... .We met randomly 7 years ago on the bezcj
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"I only wanted to love you, and you F**kin destroyed me. You played the victim and blamed me.. karma is not on your side, dear. Right is right, wrong is wrong. Through all of journey, I still am right here."
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« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2018, 09:57:42 PM »

Hi FireBurnedWild7,

Ok... .I don't even think I can type all of this out... I feel like I've written this story already 500 times. So I'll attempt my best. Long story short to recap first: I'm 30 Male, she's 27 female... .You know the sxoop- I'm a genuine nice guy, would give her my world. Fell deeply in love and she mirrored it perfectly beyond any shadow of a doubt... she was the victim, always cheated on and hurt by being abandoned by her Ex's. Well this is what she heard ME say becuz that is actually all true for me... .We met randomly 7 years ago on the bezcj

First, I'd like to send you greetings from the community.   I hope that you would find your stay here pleasant.
I do believe you must be going through alot at this moment. So, please do take your time to share your story, you could share it slowly, just bit by bit. We'll be here to listen and respond.

Takecare and Takeheart,
Spero
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« Reply #2 on: May 29, 2018, 10:11:50 PM »

There is no closure, reason,


even though she has devalued to zero or less you are part of her collection,

and though you will be treated as trash or worse,

there is a connection she can't relinquish,

do yourself a big favour do it yourself, you would have better luck getting closure from a rock because you won't get the subtle mixed nessages buried under abuse violence and threats, JUST DON"T RELY ON HER FOR anything an move on.

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« Reply #3 on: May 29, 2018, 10:31:12 PM »

Did you break up? What has happened?
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