Afternoon FF, from an undisclosed location behind enemy lines ... .
Validation verses Invalidation,
*Add love, of the "tough love" flavor... .
"If Red5's brain were a match, Red5 could not lite a stick of dynamite"
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"If Red5 had two brains, and brains were worth a nickel, Red5 wouldn't have a dime to his name: !
ok, here goes... .
Yes, validation is the oil that keeps the big engine (relationship) running smoothly... .like when the locomotive engineer walks around his engine in the round house, and applies lovingly, a squirt here, and a squirt there into the big bearings, and bolts, and gears of the behemoth locomotive drive wheels, and trucks... .squirt squirt squirt... .nice and smooth !
But sometimes, .when there is no "traction", .a small portion of "sand" is applied to the wheels in order to gain more traction over the rails (life / relationship /marriage) ?
... .ie' tough love, .I love you "BUT"... .today you get sand, and not oil dear, .until you see the error of your ways, and stop spinning your wheels !
No squirt squirt for you... .just some sand ... .
Thoughts... .
Red5
P.S.
Wiseman once say... .never hook your red caboose to a crazy train !
