New here, and I feel like I am in a crazy dream and am beginning to wake up

[Depression = 72% of members]

Where do I start? I feel like I am in a crazy dream and I am beginning to wake up. Drawing boundaries so far in is extremely hard.

[Granite Chief]

Where do I start? I feel like I am in a crazy dream and I am beginning to wake up. Drawing boundaries so far in is extremely hard.

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[RolandOfEld]

Welcome!

If you are dealing with a partner who may be suffering from BPD, then you are certainly in the right place. Here you will find a community of members who are more than willing to share their experience and listen to yours.  

Why don't you start by telling us what brought you here? In my experience there is usually some event of significance that pushes us to take the first step. And what kind of boundaries are you trying to set?

Sending you strength,
RolandOfEld

[Radcliff]

Let me join RolandOfEld in welcoming you!  We're sorry for your troubles, but are glad you are here.  This is a great place to get support and learn tools to make your situation better.  Can you tell us how long you've been with your partner, and what types of issues you're facing?

RC

[Long_term_dad]

Let me join RolandOfEld in welcoming you!  We're sorry for your troubles, but are glad you are here.  This is a great place to get support and learn tools to make your situation better.  Can you tell us how long you've been with your partner, and what types of issues you're facing?

RC

And I, too, welcome you!  The whole experience is confusing for me and, being a newbie here who has already benefited from the community, I can assure you that simply by sharing and engaging you will help yourself and others.

Thank you for sharing.  More please!