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Hello. Clarity is great.
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hi GratefulSurvivor and
i can get down with clarity! it feels good to have support, too, so im glad you reached out.
what brings you here? whatd you get clarity on?
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I have figured out that my Mom is BPD and my Dad is a Narcissist... And that I have suffered from BPD up until about 6mos to a year ago & I was a Narcissist during early 20's & I'm currently still Married to a Narcissist.
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Quote from: GratefulSurvivor on November 05, 2018, 04:15:10 PM
I have figured out that my Mom is BPD and my Dad is a Narcissist...
what led you to that discovery? what were things like with them? what are they like now?
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Hello, Grateful Survivor.
As you absorb this information, I am pulling for you. Your selected name is beautifully meaningful. I recognize your resilience and encourage you as you learn from these new revelations and continue on your journey.
Cheering for you as you see reality, grow from that, and become a thrive.
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Yes, your name says it all. It is so healing when we can move from feeling something is wrong with us to realizing that we are so lucky to have survived all the abuse, and able to have a happy fulfilling life. So many people who have experiences similar to ours, never recover from the abuse. What are the most important things that have made the difference for you and allow you to feel grateful to have survived?
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