Is residential treatment right and safe? thoughts on programs? Focused on DBT.

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My teen daughter has BPD (anxiety and mild depression).  High IQ.  Dyslexia which compounds the challenges and pressures of school. She recently had a suicide attempt and previously self harmed one time. She gets great grades and is generally a great well behaved kids.  No other issues.  Dr suggested places like below.  Everything online about these places scare me (except for 3East) and they don't look like they make much of a difference.  Thoughts from any parents on this situation or these programs? or suggestions for others?  It seems like DBT is the right path for her.

3east at Mclean
Summit achievement
Pacific quest in Hawaii
Cascade academy in Utah
Silver hill
Mountain valley in NH

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders