BPD Mother who is always behaving inappropriately

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Hi Group,
My mom has BPD and is constantly hurting me with every interaction.
I have moved out of the house and find myself not wanting to see or talk to her anymore. It has been going on for years, and she is not compliant with treatment.
What should I do?
I feel torn dissociating myself from her, but also hate her company and personality.
Sad to say, but very true.
Thank you!

[sunfish01]

Hi Group,
My mom has BPD and is constantly hurting me with every interaction.
I have moved out of the house and find myself not wanting to see or talk to her anymore. It has been going on for years, and she is not compliant with treatment.
What should I do?
I feel torn dissociating myself from her, but also hate her company and personality.
Sad to say, but very true.
Thank you!

[Harri]

Hi Sunfish and welcome.  I'm glad you found us and posted.

What sorts of things does your mom say and do?  How long ago did you move away?

I hope you share more of your story and hang around and read and just feel free to jump in and start posting to others.  We all help and support each other and it helps a great deal.

Again,

[Turkish]

 How is she behaving inappropriately,  and how is she hurting you?