Husband with BPD

[Withhopejoy]

Hello. I have been with my husband a little over 9 years. I have been searching for answers about the behaviors he exhibits and just discovered he quite possibly has BPD. I have constant anxiety and truly want to know how to best navigate this. I am shocked by how many of the tell tale signs he displays. I don’t want to give up hope because I truly love him. I’m just so tired of being treated like an insignificant person, suffering emotional abuse and trying to manage his emotions all time.
Thanks for listening.

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[Purplex]

Hello Withhopejoy and welcome to the family  

We are a supportive community and can offer a lot of information, tools, advice or simply a virtual shoulder to lean on. If you look around the boards you will most likely find some stories that are similar to yours, we understand what you are going through and you are not alone.  
What is the most urgent issue at the moment?
Feel free to post as much as you feel comfortable with, the more we know about you and your situation, the better we can help you.

[Withhopejoy]

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I will take a look around and get a better feel for how to better describe my situation.

[Purplex]

Take as much time as you need to get familiar with the boards, you can join other threads as well if you find something that resonates with you or discuss it here.  
Maybe you could give us a recent example of how he is treating you?
Which specific behaviors make you think he has BPD?