Exhausted, need courage to change and looking for support.

[Squints]

Hi,

This is my 1st post. I’m searching for support groups. I need to stop ignoring my situation. It’s affecting my kids and my health at this point. I’m exhausted. I have my 1st appt with a therapist tomorrow. My son started last week. Still need to get one for my daughter. I need them to understand that it’s not them.  My spouse adjusts his behavior for a few days and then we are back to the same.  I need a change. And the courage to do so.

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[FaithHopeLove]

Hello Squints
It is good to meet you although I am sorry for the circumstances. You have definitely come to the right place for help and support. What exactly is going on in your life? Does one of your family members have BPD? How can we help you?