BPD or I am thinking NPD Actually

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I have suspected NPD of late as silent treatment is my wife's main weapon against me.  I don't react to it much anymore if all and even though we have less conflict than we did years ago, I've read about "narcissistic supply" and the need they have for it.  When they don't get the "reactions" anymore they move on.  I think she is struggling right now with my own healing and self improvement and so she is pushing me away because she needs a new "host" if that makes sense.  She is just one unhappy woman unless she is having fun with her friends or exercising, or garnering attention on social media.  It drives me crazy because it is all a front that she puts on, she is really just an impostor and the one person that knows the real her is me! 

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