Hi all.its been awhile. Having a really hard time. BPD bf walked out of counsel

[Theperfectsky]

Was really hoping couples counseling would help..he walked out. I'm having a really hard time. Our daughter is currently sick and I've missed work all week. Ive started to look for another place to live..which all are too expensive which circles back around to me missing work this whole week. He is just constantly calling me names and being angry with me. Has avoided the walking out on Saturday. Has avoided all convo pretty much. I moved to another state to be with him not knowing the monster that lived inside of him. I have no family or friends here. Im afraid he doesnt have work this weekend which means he will be drinking which means it will be hell here. I have my son this weekend and like I mentioned before my daughter who is sick. I feel like I'm going to have a nervous breakdown...

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good to see you back, Tps

what happened? what led him to walk out of couples counseling?

[Theperfectsky]

He said I was painting him as a monster and was lying. The truth is what made him walk out.

He literally has ignored me since last Saturday besides throwing the mean comments and names at me and just now called me into the bedroom and asked if he could have a hug and tried to kiss me. When I denied his kiss he said you can go now. I said to him do you know you take me on an emotional rollercoaster? You bring me in and shut me out why would I want to kiss you? It hurts to be brought in and shut out. You ignored me for 4 days now. He said you did the same thing. I said I tried to talk to you numerous times. I told you everyday to quit avoiding and talk to me. I was crying and just got up and left the room.

My heart is aching... This is madness to me. I wish i could tell him what is wrong with him but I know I cant