I want her back. I don't know what are my next steps here.

[lemon10]

1) She did push-pull all the time, I got tired and broke off with her and told her stupid reasons for a breakup. She begged and I refused.
2) Week later I apologized, she became hot and cold for the next month, ultimately decided to broke off with me because of "too many reasons".
3) Ultimately I begged her - it was a fight then.
4) I went NC.
5) She blocked me on social then unblocked me. She started following my social media with obsession every day (and we are not following each other but I can see she is viewing).
6) I accepted the breakout but the stalking on social media was weird because she broke up with me. I broke NC after 3 weeks, we talked briefly, she seemed happy to talk. I kept it short. I haven't been talking to her since then (a week).

I want her back. I don't know what are my next steps here. Any advice is appreciated. Should I wait more? Should I engage? It's been almost 3 months since the initial breakup.

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