Having tremendous difficulty finding a therapist

[Theotter]

Greetings. I am trying to help my fiance find a therapist for us who will listen to us and believe the pain that she goes through with her BPD.

We are new to BPD. She was diagnosed 6 months ago, prior to that was told she had depression and anxiety. The last psych nurse she was sent to spent all the time talking about herself and made my fiance beg for medication refills.

I am a pharmacist, but my connects into the medical world have provided nothing useful.

We live in Vermont. We would love websites, offices, or practice sites, or just some clue on how to find any of those.
Mostly looking for a therapist who has DBT training and will treat us as a couple.

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[Naughty Nibbler]

Hi  Theotter:

Info. below relates to a Marsha Linehan training facility & those who have trained through her.  Marsha is the gold standard for DBT.

The link below can lead you to some therapists in Vermont:
https://behavioraltech.org/resources/find-a-therapist-app/wpbdm-region/vermont/

The main website address is: https://behavioraltech.org/