Boyfriend and self have BPD

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I only just found out from my therapist that I may be someone who is struggling with undiagnosed BPD. Having vented and told my boyfriend about this, he shared that he also has BPD. We both shared our anxieties and fears with relationships, and although I'm willing to try and have a relationship with him. I know I will never be sufient, or reach an end goal with him.. I understand how complicated of a battle BPD is, but I want to be loved.Now I'm anxiously waiting for his response over the weekend.. to find out if he still wants to be with me. I understand the anxieties, we are both in different places in our lives as he's 27, and I'm 21. Wrong place at the wrong time? is there ever a right time? but is he too afraid to try that he would break up with me over this?

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I only just found out from my therapist that I may be someone who is struggling with undiagnosed BPD. Having vented and told my boyfriend about this, he shared that he also has BPD. We both shared our anxieties and fears with relationships, and although I'm willing to try and have a relationship with him. I know I will never be sufient, or reach an end goal with him.. I understand how complicated of a battle BPD is, but I want to be loved.Now I'm anxiously waiting for his response over the weekend.. to find out if he still wants to be with me. I understand the anxieties, we are both in different places in our lives as he's 27, and I'm 21. Wrong place at the wrong time? is there ever a right time? but is he too afraid to try that he would break up with me over this?

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