Married for five years. Fairy tale, better than the movies kind of love. Then I discovered he’s been cheating on me for the past two years. Many women! He’s so suicidal, I can’t divorce him yet. How do I hang in there.
Hello there my friend. And I call you friend because if you are here, then you are a friend.
I really appreciate how direct your question is. And I am sorry that this is happening to you, but I am really happy that you have found us. You will find lots of good advice.
How to hang in there is a really important question - and one who's answer really depends a lot on your current family situation.
Can you safely tell us more about where you are at? Are you safe? Do you have children? What is preventing you from seeking divorce besides his suicidal ideations?
Again, answer only what you feel safe in answering.
Oh - do you have access to therapy safely?
Write back when you can. We can help you.
Rev.
