Figuring this out

[Lobo7]

Hello all - I’m new to this world and coming to terms with the possibility my wife is dealing with BPD. We’ve been married for 23 years and I feel like I’ve done all I can but feel a tremendous amount of guilt even considering separation, mostly due to my faith and also having emphasized to my kids to “never give up”. We’ve been in steady counseling for 4-5 years and started my kids in counseling due to climatic rages about 2 years ago. I’m primarily looking for clarity and objectivity as my view of normal is pretty skewed I believe. I have more questions than answers. Looking forward to learning more. 

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