New To Site, Looking For Help

[JohnP787]

Hi, I am new to this forum. Just looking for some help on what to do. I think my wife has BPD and our relationship just continues to deteriorate and get more extreme. I have left and I am currently living away from home. Cheers John P.

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[RestlessWanderer]

Welcome! You are in the right place. There are many of us here that have had or are currently having experiences similar to yours. BPDFamily is truly a family for people that have had a hard time finding anyone that can fully understand what you’re going through. Take time to read through the various forums and find stories that ring true to you. Read the tips and tools to help you decide what you need and how to move forward.
I encourage you to share more about your story to better help us understand what you’re going through. You can feel safe when opening up here. Share only what you’re comfortable talking about.
I too am struggling with a failing marriage due to, in large part, BPD traits and behaviors from my wife. She is undiagnosed, and likely will never be. It has gotten harder and harder. In fact she left today and is saying she wants a divorce. Not the first time, but it may be the last time.
Anyway, welcome. You’re in a good place to find support. Hopefully you will find what you need.

Be well,

RW