I’m depressed and that doesn’t help

[Depression = 72% of members]

My girlfriend is set off by things not being done around the house (dishes, laundry, etc) but those are the things that I struggle most with due to major depression. She doesn’t see it as an excuse and holds it against me. While I’m trying hard, what should I do in the meantime? I’m also working 60 hours a week rn bc of mandatory overtime.

[TheActualMarg]

My girlfriend is set off by things not being done around the house (dishes, laundry, etc) but those are the things that I struggle most with due to major depression. She doesn’t see it as an excuse and holds it against me. While I’m trying hard, what should I do in the meantime? I’m also working 60 hours a week rn bc of mandatory overtime.

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[pursuingJoy]

welcome! we're glad you're here!  Depression can impact every aspect of life. What steps are you taking to manage your mental health and wellness? Is your gf supportive?