I have been married 20+ years and now believe my partner has BPD. It was suggested to her by her therapist and she relayed this information to me before firing the therapist. I have since done a lot of research, worked with my therapist who agrees with my belief that my spouse has BPT or BPD. My spouse has been having one medical issue after another and has been bed ridden for weeks, making me her only caregiver. I am drowning in this environment. Thankfully home health is coming to help with some of the chores. No family around, her daughter (my stepdaughter) has requested no contact with her mom. Help.
