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« on: March 02, 2022, 10:44:02 AM »

 Welcome new member (click to insert in post) hey all.. Im back.. and back in that dark hole again. I met someone on a game I actively play called "second life". Its like sims - but live action. This person who is about 10 yrs younger to me, was giving me problems. She caused problems for me on the game. And yes Im fully aware that its a game - but when my name is insulted (yes I know I should ignore it) I was called a pedophile by her, and how I abuse my mother (who is 85) She twisted and turned everything I said and dominates the conversation - makes it all about her. I wish I knew how to desensitize myself to this but I cant.

And yes I know it a game but its my "me zone" away from the bullPLEASE READ in this present world.
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« Reply #1 on: March 02, 2022, 11:25:30 AM »

How do these insults get you invested in participating with her?
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« Reply #2 on: March 02, 2022, 11:42:56 AM »

How do these insults get you invested in participating with her?

The "owner" of the sim took what she said at face value about me, when the sim owner knows me for participating on the sim and "contributing" tokens towards the betterment of the sim
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