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[MaryMargaret]

I'm not sure how this works, but am willing to give it a try. I'm kind of at my wits end and don't know where to go.
I think my spouse has BPD, but also SAD and possibly a Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Anxiety Disorder. Even saying that makes me question myself.
I need help with my expectations and tools to make me healthier.

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That’s quite a list of diagnoses. Has there been an official diagnosis by a mental health professional?

What are some of the challenges you face in your relationship?