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« on: August 09, 2023, 07:56:51 AM »

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Hi everyone

Not sure how long this will take to reach someone.

I have been married to my wife of 14 yrs and have never been so afriad for myself and my kids.

My wife will be one min absolutely no problem having a great time. Then she will be somewhere up in someones face almost nose to nose screaming about her rules and only those rules can be used.

We went to a family counseling person and i was fearful to say anything, so i stopped talking out of fear. (When She loses her control of any situation its starts with screaming and then panic attack and then lorazapams to calm down because she can deal with her issues and doesnt want to)  i was hitting my head with my water bottle and she screamed angrily lets go im forming you into the hospital! (She was formed in on mar 2023) she then proceeded to scream and yell demands to get in the truck swearing and everything. Im completely freaking out inside tears down my face with no emotion
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« Reply #1 on: August 09, 2023, 09:46:57 AM »

Is the situation getting worse? How long has she been using benzodiazepines? How old are your kids? How does she respond to them? Do you think they’re fearful of her?
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