identical twin with BPD

[Debsis]

BPD twin has conducted a distortion campaign on my husband and me for the past 2 years.  she has  emotionally, legally and financially targeted us.  she's recruited my family members... .  which really hurts.  She's attacked us and yet portrayed herself as the victim.  i suspect she will never end the legal attack as it's the only connection left to me.  any one had similar experience?

[Vindi]

 *welcome*hi  i don't have a similar experience but if you want help with dealing with loved ones w/BPD this is the place to be.

Here are some good links to check out... .  

[L5]  Coping and Healing from a BPD Parent, Sibling, or Inlaw Board

Video-Tools to Reduce Conflict with a person suffering from BPD

hoping things get a lil better with your sister and not feel so attacked, this website is a great resource of info.

[TheOtherOne]

I don't have a similiar experience, but I do have an identical twin with BPD. She ignores us until she's in trouble, and then disappears when she gets too close

[ScarletOlive]

Hi Debsis,

I'm sorry to hear this. It sounds really tough for you. Although the person with BPD in my life is my mom, I do know the effects of denigration campaigns and having family and friends turned against you.

I'm glad you're here, because I know there are people who have been through similar and can relate. You're not alone here. How much contact do you have now with your sis? Sending much caring and support to you.