She says " I love your father then she got Obnoxious"

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Yes that's what my boys said when I picked them up for a visitation. Here's the story ... .  

Divorced 5 years ago She has BPD refuses to acknowledge that.

She owes me about $1000 and I am current on CS and I pay ss mostly current but they take my tax return.

One of my boys comes out and tells me how she has no money or food or gas and was muttering about how she gave me $20 and she's out of toilet paper too. So I tell my son I just happened to not take the bag of tp with the groceries and it was still in the car.

You can't take it all but take her 2 rolls.

He comes back out and I ask so how did that go because so often she'll find a slam like "your father says I'm full of it doesn't he" but he says she said " I love your father ... .  then she got Obnoxious"

ok

I don't get it but after a while I just had to ask so I did I said "So what do you mean She got obnoxious?" And he said "she went off making strange sounds"

Do I have any Pentecostals in my audience here?

[Not2Crazy]

Yes that's what my boys said when I picked them up for a visitation. Here's the story ... .  

Divorced 5 years ago She has BPD refuses to acknowledge that.

She owes me about $1000 and I am current on CS and I pay ss mostly current but they take my tax return.

One of my boys comes out and tells me how she has no money or food or gas and was muttering about how she gave me $20 and she's out of toilet paper too. So I tell my son I just happened to not take the bag of tp with the groceries and it was still in the car.

You can't take it all but take her 2 rolls.

He comes back out and I ask so how did that go because so often she'll find a slam like "your father says I'm full of it doesn't he" but he says she said " I love your father ... .  then she got Obnoxious"

ok

I don't get it but after a while I just had to ask so I did I said "So what do you mean She got obnoxious?" And he said "she went off making strange sounds"

Do I have any Pentecostals in my audience here?

[FollowingBliss]

No, but from what I can gather she may have been dissociating.