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« on: April 03, 2013, 09:49:07 PM »

It's been about six weeks, very minimal contact since she started getting in a depressive mood.  She did get the job offer she wanted and even posted on fb that she should be "out of this funk soon".  I sent her a nice text with a Happy Easter pic and "Happy Easter, miss u guys and hope the kids enjoy their Easter baskets".  All I got later was a Happy Easter and a pic of the thunder clouds above her house.  Is that her trying to draw me into her funk?   I've just been doing me and giving her a lot of space.  This has been about the longest she's been quiet.  Driving me crazy a lil bit since there was no fight or anything negative with us, although she did try to draw me into a fight.
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« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2013, 10:54:31 PM »

Sounds like you are doing pretty well with it considering... . especially compared to me right now. 
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