DSD's BPD mom found a counselor to beef up her court case, and told the counselor all of these lies about DH. It was obvious when DH went to speak with her that she was biased against him. :)H spoke with her, I sent a couple of emails detailing my concerns, but we haven't seen her since (I told her in one of the emails that I am concerned because DSD "makes denial an Olympic sport"--a phrase I read somewhere on these boards... .
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She has been with this counselor for almost a year, and despite our initial concerns, it DOES seem that she is helping. I can't pinpoint it, but I am getting a sense that DSD is understanding more about her mom and what has happened. :)SD told my DD last week that she wanted to do something for DH"s birthday, but she didn't think her mom would let her. She didn't bring anything for him on his birthday, but the day after her counseling session later that week, she brought him a cake. This week DSD invited us to her dance program tonight and even texted DH reminding him this morning. She never would have done this a year ago (for whatever reason). I am guessing that the counselor has to be seeing something going on despite what BPDMom has tried to tell her.
