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Author Topic: What should you do if EX comes back?  (Read 766 times)
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« Reply #30 on: May 07, 2013, 11:30:25 AM »

Lucky Jim.

Yeah I agree.

I think the great thing that came out of all this is I learned why its important to have boundaries and uphold my boundaries. It's really for my own well being in my view. After seeing what happens to me if I let my boundaries get crossed, I'm not gonna let it happen again
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« Reply #31 on: May 07, 2013, 12:01:46 PM »

They only come back if you let them.

I realize everyone has specifics and details which make your situation complicated or different.  But really, it's quite simple.

You have to decide who is more important?  You or them.

I hope you choose you  Smiling (click to insert in post)

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